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October 1st, 2011, 12:21 am

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Reply Lesbian Comics, October 1st, 2011, 12:33 am

Poor bisexuals... My ex would tell me she would NEVER date a bisexual, because they would cheat on her with a man...she never dated a bisexual before, she just assumed they would cheat BECAUSE they were bisexual. I found this so ridiculous, and when I told her how I felt, she would say that "bisexuals are more likely to cheat on you".
Maybe the fact they didn't just date women grossed her out, so that's why she judged them? I don't know. I really don't understand that line of thinking about bisexuals. I don't care what you are, if you're a girl that I'm attracted too and you're attracted to me, THEN IT'S AWWW GEEEWD . End of story.

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Reply RyoSoulreaper, October 1st, 2011, 1:07 am

My brain lapsed a little when she said that about the Bisexuals.

I'm not Bisexual or anything but I'm tolerant of shit like this and to automatically assume someone will cheat because they are in fact bisexual is just one of the stupidest things I've ever heard. If they cheat it's the person not their sexuality that caused them to do it.

Reply beldon123, October 1st, 2011, 1:56 am

I'm a bisexual and I had that issue with my second boyfriend. :/ I told him I'd been to 6th base (you don't want to know) with two different girls before and he started on about how wierd it was to, and I quote, "not care where you stick it" -_-''

Reply Lemon (Guest), October 1st, 2011, 3:18 am

THANK YOU. FOR THIS. SOOOOOOO MUCH. I hear a lot of that and "bisexuals are just sluts". I just. AUGHH. I hate it so much and I've heard it from some friends too, which makes it awkward when I stare at them and they remember that I'M A BISEXUAL AND I AM RIGHT THERE.
I think cheating is the lowest thing you can do and have never done it (or even come close to) BUT I AM TOTALLY A CHEATING SLUT. Effffff that. They don't deserve my fine ass.

Reply Aboore, October 1st, 2011, 9:16 am

ZOOM C-C-Combo breaker! 8D anyway yeah, Thats how I feel. Hell if a chick is even remotely interested I'm overjoyed for god sake! Where does anyone get the balls to judge and be that picky? Ah well back to my dark corner with me!

Reply comatoselove, October 1st, 2011, 10:07 am

Oh wow O.o Thank god my girlfriend isn't like that. I'm bisexual and I'd hate it if people assumed I'm a slut because of that. Just because you like both genders doesn't men you're going to cheat, end of story. Personally I hate cheating. I'd never do it to anyone.

Reply otakulys, October 1st, 2011, 10:11 am

I've heard that a lot, actually, even from lesbian friends of mine. I think part of it goes back to the last discussion we had with girls who say they're bisexual for attention but actually aren't and the girls who all must have a boyfriend before they go for a girl as well like it's their holy bisexual birthright. So unfortunately, stereotyping takes over, and people just stop trusting individuals, I guess. It's sort of like saying bisexuals are sluts because they like both genders. It's such a funny concept, because just because you like a gender doesn't mean you're attracted to everyone of that gender. Ignorance is present everywhere. It's such a shame. I think bisexuals are one step below trans people as far as getting crap from both the straight and gay community.

Reply AnonWoopah (Guest), October 1st, 2011, 1:16 pm

I've totally heard the 'bisexuals always cheat' line. Especially in regards to my current girlfriend. People who've figured out we're dating ask me, 'But, aren't you scared she'll cheat on you? I mean, she's bi. She's bound to want more than you.' It makes me mentally facepalm every single time. Sure, bisexuals generally have a higher libido than a heterosexual or a homosexual, but that doesn't promise that they'll cheat. It's absolutely absurd to think that a person would cheat just because of their sexual orientation. Really.

Reply MouseMute, October 1st, 2011, 6:22 pm

Gee, I don't really know about this... But I guess I can't say this is true, because even though I'm bisexual and have cheated, that doesn't mean that other bisexuals cheat. I think it's just because I'm a terrible person. I've cheated on my girlfriends with boys, I've cheated on my boyfriends with girls, and then again, I've cheated on my boyfriends with other boys. I'm just a cheater.
Oops. :(
So it DOES depend on the person. Just because someone's bisexual doesn't mean they will automatically want someone other than their spouse. However, it just so happens that I'm bi. And always want someone other than my spouse, lol.

Reply SpiralPen, October 2nd, 2011, 12:26 am

Assumptions, assumptions everywhere.

And since everyone else is sharing, I don't really know where I fit into this wagon.
I wouldn't consider myself the kind of person to cheat, I think it's horrible and disgusting, but yet, I have to admit that I did several years ago. And it was stupid.
And now, several years later, I've become comfortable with my bisexuality and sort of... come out of the half-closet? Is it still coming out of the closet if you're not all-out gay?
Not sure...
But anyways,
OH NO! WHAT IF I DID THOSE HORRIBLE THINGS BECAUSE I WAS BISEXUAL ALL ALONG?!

That would be ridiculous and silly, just like the idea of possibly humoring such a thought at all.

Reply siskhi, October 2nd, 2011, 3:44 am

I feel sorta hit by those words :I I do not like your ex way of thinking :I

Reply CLAM, October 2nd, 2011, 3:46 am

Cheating makes me sad.
Bisexuals don't always
cheat though. ANYONE CAN
CHEAT.

Reply DribbledCarmelLaces (Guest), October 2nd, 2011, 3:23 pm

Thank you! I'm glad some people in the gay community realize this (well, besides other bisexuals) -sobs- When I was first doing research about my sexuality and the gay community in general I saw all this hate towards bisexuals. It made me rather upset.

On another note, my straight friend said the same thing last year during painting to me. I'm not out of the closet, so I was fumbling on how to explain to her how stupid she was being. Fortunately a senior stepped in and helped me out.
I think she kind of assumes bisexuals to be more like polygamists or something, from other things she's said. But yeah. I kind of felt the need to comment on this post -goes back to lurking in the shadows for a while-

Reply roxjey, October 3rd, 2011, 12:56 pm

-_- wow that was a really stupid way of thinking

Reply Hyli_Tuben_Mechanic, October 7th, 2011, 3:36 am

Ugh she sounds like my parents.
And it really ticks me off when they say it so I can only imagine how you felt.
>.>

Reply Shijiru, November 7th, 2011, 8:45 am

Oh, Thank you!!!
I am bisexual and I really hate when people think that way, or think we bisexuals need to date a boy and a girl at the same time. We are normal persons, we fall in love, wheter we cheat or not doesn't have todo do with our sexual orientation.
I mean I have dated girls and I have never cheated on them; but I was cheated on by a ex bisexual girlfriend, but it was with another girl.

Reply marci (Guest), November 13th, 2011, 9:01 pm

oh yeah... so true! im bisexual and my crazy ex gf had the same prejudice... one year latter, guess who was cheated? twice!

Reply Kai (Guest), November 20th, 2011, 9:15 am

GAAAAHHH >.< I really hate that!
I'm bisexual, and when I'm with somebody I'd never ever EVER cheat on them! :3 Even before I realized my sexuality, I was raised with the idea that ya stay with one person and don't sleep around behind their back! I hate being judged as a slut or someone who'd cheat on her bf/gf. 'cos I never would!

-rant over-

Reply Snowy (Guest), December 5th, 2011, 2:36 pm

I have to admit that I actually hold a similar prejudice even though I know that it isn't very fair. My ex cheated on me with 4 different guys (That I know of; heard rumors of others, but I'll give her the benefit of the doubt.) and identified as bisexual. I was the only girl she'd ever dated, but her longest relationship at two years. When we broke up I was screwed up for a long time and dramatically swore never to date another bisexual.

Like I said, unfair. Not every bisexual is like her and intellectually, I know this. I also know that I should have walked away a hell of a lot sooner. I'm much less opinionated on the issue now than I was due to time, but I guess I never completely forgot.

Reply Jaden (Guest), December 13th, 2011, 5:27 pm

@Lesbian Comics: It's all fine and dandy until said lesbian goes down on said bisexual and gets a taste of some dude's jizz. Gross as hell! Better safe than sorry. Avoid bisexuals like the plague. Not to mention bringing AIDS in from their last boyfriend. Why risk getting AIDS from a bi woman when you can have carefree sex with a lesbian?

Reply Jaden (Guest), December 13th, 2011, 5:32 pm

@marci: The lesbian community is practically resistant to STDs (AIDS). Bisexuals bring diseases. That's a fact! A lesbian that sleeps with a bisexual is playing russian roulette with her health.

Reply GunsDontSmoke, December 15th, 2011, 8:52 pm

But then again what if you date a girl who says she's lesbian when she just turns out straight? My sister does that alot. She goes around saying she's a lesbian but then she always dates guys. It upsets me how people do that. :/ It's a life choice and you can't just say it like a joke. Causes people to get hurt.

Reply KatzyKins, January 19th, 2012, 7:49 am

@Jaden: You can aids from girls too darlin'.

Reply KatzyKins, January 19th, 2012, 7:50 am

@GunsDontSmoke:

xD Choice is a bad word, but I see your point D:

Reply ProfessorLawl, February 20th, 2012, 8:55 pm

THANK YOU~! I am so sick of hearing that exact myth! even my Mum makes comments about having boy/girl toys on the side so bisexuals aren't "repressing" themselves. WTH does that even mean?? o_O

Reply yaoi4evandnevayuri, May 26th, 2012, 6:52 pm

Is it wrong that I hate females who call themselves lesbian even though they still go after men? It's like, 'REALLY? You're not a lesbian if you go after a man! You're bisexual. Stop lying to yourself.' Or is it just me who thinks that way?

Reply ArkanoiR, May 30th, 2012, 6:59 pm

maybe you've already gotten this comment because this is old and there's a lot of comments. But I face this problem a lot as someone who's bisexual. I've had tons of guys be like "no i won't date on you because obviously you'll cheat one me."
it's gotten to the point where I don't even like admitting i'm bisexual because of the rep we've got :I

Reply SomethingScenic, June 6th, 2012, 9:54 pm

Sii~~iighh *Insulted by the bi-hating world.

Reply Potatoes4Eva, July 9th, 2012, 1:27 pm

*sighs* My best friend Brooke is bisexual (well, she's really, really picky about the girls she dates *thinks she's just confused but I love her so whatevs*), and I know for a fact she would NEVER cheat on someone. People are just...so...STEREOTYPICAL. A majority of the people that say they're bisexual, like, AREN'T. And the behavior that those notbisexuals display... It gives the whole sexuality a bad rep! It's sickening, really. I'd totally date a bisexual.

Reply KittyLitter, September 1st, 2012, 1:28 pm

I basically don't even tell people my specific orientation anymore, unless I really trust them. :I

Reply x-Ace-of-Spades-x, November 12th, 2012, 4:46 am

*too upset to comment properly*

Reply LARPruler, December 14th, 2012, 7:16 am

When I told my mom I was pansexual, her first comment was, "so you will cheat on boyiend then?" It was awkward enough to tell her, she just had to get me mad too

Reply Sleepingsoul, December 29th, 2012, 12:17 am

akdbfvaklhd;fha right after the last one toooo....

TT^TT I'm sad.

Reply Lexybear, December 31st, 2012, 7:31 pm

I could understand why a lesbian wouldn't want to date a bisexual...but you can't really choose who you fall in love with.

I think most of the time it's just an ego thing. :|

I'm the jealous type...so I get it...

Reply LawfullyEvil, May 5th, 2013, 8:55 pm

Come on! I just hate it when people pull that card! Being bisexual, i have about twice as much a chance of getting rejected! Then when they play that card i have pretty much no shot!

Reply Clouds.Of.Rabbits, July 9th, 2013, 10:47 pm

MARRY ME OMFG I RELATE TO EVER WORD OF THIS PAGE JESUS CHRIST.

Reply NHarrington9, August 21st, 2013, 12:00 pm

@Lesbian Comics: I've gotten this before and I'm not even a true "bisexual" as it were. I mean I find men attractive still but even the thought of having sex with a man makes me feel sick.
I love the ladies, what can I say? But a lot of my friends make those kind of comments to me, and I think they do it just because my "pool of suitors" is larger than theirs...psh...ridiculous.

Reply ExtreamHetalian, September 21st, 2014, 12:07 am

I'm Bi but I hate all the guys in the school you can say I have a attraction to them but I never date them inconsiderate assholes I prefer to stay with my girlfriend and look at yaoi with her and talk about how stupid real boys are they are really fucking stupid where I live they don't know what hot topic is or Starbucks da fuck is wrong with them. XD

Reply HermesChildOfRain, December 18th, 2014, 6:30 pm

Im bi and i don't cheat

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