October 1st, 2012, 4:27 am

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Reply Lesbian Comics, October 1st, 2012, 4:39 am

I have a lot of trouble with P.D.A. BACK IN THE DAY, when I was barely out of the closet, PDA was pretty hard for me (still is, but for different reasons). Especially when this pre-teen boy gives you a typical "aw yeee lesbians" face and the old guy in the background gives you dirty looks. Kissing PDA was a lot worse. I still live in shy town U.S.A. so PDA is still this terrifying thing that eats away at my confidence. But, who knows! I haven't had a lady lass since then! PERHAPS PDA ISN'T SO BAD NOW! I will conquer this PDA crap. ONE DAY.

P.S. School just started for me! Therefore, updates may be extra slow depending on my work load.

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Reply Shiroi Angel, October 1st, 2012, 5:49 am

-_- I have PDA issues, I wanted to kiss my gf the other day in the cinemas but i was too worried to -_-

Reply Kiel95, October 1st, 2012, 5:59 am

I only have PDA issues with others.... and by others I mean those people who sit there and make out in the middle of the hallway =___= I don't care if you just peck lightly or something, but just making out the entire time is kinda annoying... Oh, and I don't have much problems with PDA probably because my school isn't as scary on the whole front of gays and such and also my friends and I all flirt and stuff together because we can xD

Oh, and I believe that you can make it past the PDA problem :) It just takes a lil bit of time ;)

Reply inubasket, October 1st, 2012, 9:16 am

I'm veeerrryyyy shy about PDA, glad to know I'm not the only one xD

In high school, I had a class with a couple who would literally just stand outside the classroom every day making out until class started. One day this guy who was also in our class, grabbed a chair and sat RIGHT in front of them and stared at them mercilessly until they finally stopped. It was hilarious. Didn't stop their daily ritual though :/

Reply GriddedKnight, October 1st, 2012, 9:24 pm

It is a mix for me, I would rather kiss or hold hands in public with a girl then a boy :/
but I'm a big huger but not if the other partner starts the hug... I have to start the hug.

Reply candyaddict, October 1st, 2012, 9:37 pm

i got over it now i'm not worry at all ^-^

Reply TomorrowsNightmare95, October 1st, 2012, 10:04 pm

Those stares should actually boost your confidence. They mean you two are a hot lesbian couple and not the fat, redneck, weirdos I've seen around here. (Is that shallow?)

Reply KatzyKins, October 2nd, 2012, 3:22 pm

Holding hands was always fine for me (I used to frolic about hand in hand with friends), but I was never good with kissing and such whether I did it with a guy or girl. I just don't like it (for me, everyone else is totally welcome to do what they please so long as it's not indecent exposure) when people look, just carry on. I'm sure you'll manage passed it too someday :3 I can understand not being particularly thrilled about being ogled by people D:

Reply KatzyKins, October 2nd, 2012, 3:23 pm

@TomorrowsNightmare95: xD a bit, but I was certainly thinking that first part too actually :o

Reply W0rmh0le, October 2nd, 2012, 8:53 pm

I don't have a girlfriend but I have a close friend who I'm really affectionate with and one day I was like "let's hold hands! all the other girls seem to do that" (which they do) and she was like "people keep thinking I'm a lesbian, this won't help that fact...sorry" I was kinda wounded by this but I had to understand why.

Reply Killer-Koi-11, October 20th, 2012, 10:05 pm

WHHHYYYYY when i had a girl friend in high school (ugh) she was always trying to kiss me or grab my butt in school it was weird. Why aren't hugs and hand holding enough

Reply roxjey, November 2nd, 2012, 12:58 am

argh but we boys have it worse here
with girls in my town, they can hold hands and nobody would think badly of it
but boys holding hands is just such a big deal!

Reply x-Ace-of-Spades-x, November 12th, 2012, 5:50 am

I just ... cannot do it. P.D.A. is a definite no-no. I hate when other people are around when I'm trying to be affectionate. I mean, holding hands is the most I'll do, and there's certain circumstances that I will and won't do that under. Kissing in public is a blaring OMG NO xD Dunno what it is ... I'm tweaked. Oh well.

Reply LARPruler, December 26th, 2012, 9:51 pm

Does Shy Town contain Shy Guys?

Reply JJmyster22, May 2nd, 2013, 6:22 pm

May I ask a question (that, in itself, is a rhetorical question because I am still going to ask since you may or may not respond in time)? Has this sort of reluctance/shyness ever resulted in problems in your relationships?

Reply Lesbian Comics, May 3rd, 2013, 9:50 pm

@JJmyster22: Not any major problem though! I've only dated two people, and they both came from very accepting background while I did not, so they just seemed a bit confused with my reluctance and why I stayed in the closet. But it didn't hurt our relationship. They've always respected to an extent that I wasn't out yet and was still nervous.

Reply JJmyster22, May 4th, 2013, 11:03 pm

@Lesbian Comics: Ah, I see! That's good. Are you still in the closet, and are you dating someone at the moment?

EDIT: I apologize for the prying questions, I realize they might be of the more personal nature. You need not answer if they make you uncomfortable.

Reply Lesbian Comics, May 5th, 2013, 1:12 am

@JJmyster22: No, I'm out now! And dating no one.
And I don't mind questions! I have a tumblr though (the link is on my profile). You can ask them there!

Reply JJmyster22, May 5th, 2013, 9:31 am

Alright, thank you for your time! I'll definitely check that out!

Reply Sombrero Mustache, June 30th, 2013, 10:29 pm

Ah yes, this reminds me of a picture on iFunny. Where this lesbian couple walks through the mall or something, and this guys yells "WOOH". They wave back at a young girl, but her mother covers her eyes and says "Don't wave at them," Then this guy comes up to them and says "Bless you Both, keep on fighting.
One of them asks what it's like for straight couples, and her partners says "Quieter I guess."

Reply swampdog, January 7th, 2014, 1:03 pm

Oh man this reminds me of this one time, I was holding my gf's hand in public and some lady just stared at us and shook her head. Like....really?? Its not like we're making out or anything wow

Reply tzuyufan14, November 26th, 2015, 5:01 pm

Oh dear God, this is terrible. Unwanted attention is awful. Sigh.

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